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| Personality and Ego for Success or Depression |
I wonder at times
as what is the root cause of this
rigidness. Though I admit that it is in Human Nature and People were
like that
in past times as well. But it is certainly a matter to ponder over as
the self-centered approach towards life is getting too much high. We
think about our Personal
Motives, Goals and then the Pleasures, even at the sake of losing some
Great Relationships.
I guess it is due to a fast track RACE of Material Gains that
has started to overcome our Thoughts and Ideas. We are too much indulged in
having things and time that can make us happy, and not on doing something for
the COMFORTS of others. A friend of mine recently said goodbye to a job as he
was not easy there. I understood his position but asked him to survive a little
bit more unless he could find a better alternative as he had so many domestic responsibilities!
He replied that he could not suffer due to anyone, and he is
going to have in life what suits him. I agree with his point as if someone is continuously in distress then he or she can get Psychological as well as Physical Problems.
But I only wanted him to find something that could go in flow with his
dependents.
It is a common psyche in mostly the developed countries that
makes a men or women get out of a marital relationship, without bothering or thinking
about the future of their kids. The real suffering and the personality disorders
start with those kids when they are growing up. But the selfish approach does
not let both parties to think about their child’ emotions and peace of mind!
If people start adopting this mental approach then they can
do well to themselves and to their loved ones for sure. Everybody needs Love
and Comfort, and it is not a bad thing to desire and strive for! But if we are
losing some great bonding due to irrelevant things then surely it is a great
loss as I perceive. What is your opinion about it?
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